You’re going to be sad.
You’re going to want to scream and punch things.
Do it.
Let out every ounce of anger you have.
Sit on the floor and cry until you feel numb.
Listen to songs that make your heart sink to your feet.
Write angry letters to all the people who have broken you, left you, ignored you or hurt you.
Throw your hairbrush at the wall.
Do it twelve times.
Do it until you feel like you can breathe again.

You’re going to be sad.
You’re going to want to hurt yourself.
Don’t you dare do it.
Sit on the floor and watch cartoons like you did when you were little.
Listen to songs that make you want to dance around your bedroom in your underwear at 3 A.M.
Make paper airplanes out of those angry letters and watch them soar into the fireplace.
Brush all the knots out of your hair and say “I am worth it” into the mirror.
Say it twelve times.
Say it until you feel like you can breathe again.

You’re going to be sad.
You’re going to get through it.

things i wish i could make you understand - pessimistiic (via perfect)

Anonymous asked:

Hey! Okay so you answered a question from me a while ago and I don't think it worked. Everytime I'm around my friend I get butterflies and stuff. I can't push away the thoughts about me and him together and I've gotten to the point where I don't want to be around him anymore because it hurts 😔😭 what do I do???

Yeah I know what you mean but there is not much you can do honey. I can tell you all this advice but unless you get get over him yourself then I can’t really guide you. I will try though :)
Okay I know that you don’t want to see him because it hurts but seeing him and talking to him will help. Make sure you talk to him often and try to get a gist of whether he likes you. You never know, he might like you back! To find out you could ask a friend to ask him or just ask him yourself! If that doesn’t work the girl you just gotta tell him you like him.
If you want to get over him then you have to either start liking someone else or find things wrong with him that would put you off liking him. If you can’t find any thing then that means you shouldn’t stop liking him.
Hope this helps a little bit, I’m sorry I can’t really help you with this because it’s up to him whether he likes you or not, not me. Keep your head up :) xxx